How you can make your dreams come true

For some people finding self confidence can be a challenge. Most people suffer with feelings of inadequacy now and again but for others it can be quite disabling. The best way to work on this lack of confidence is to look at your positive traits and work on them. Every person on the earth is unique and each one of us has strong points in our personality, it is finding these and working with them that gives you the first rung on the ladder to developing your self worth.





Take a look at the most confident people you know. They are probably people who could be classed as ‘doers’ and seem to get what they want out of life. This is because they decide what they want out of life and go for it. Waiting for opportunities to fall into their laps will not be part of their makeup, they will be the type that make opportunities happen. But how do they do it. Read on...





You need to take charge of your life, because that is what it is YOUR LIFE. What you project out into the world is what you receive in return. If you tell yourself time and time again that you are not worth it or that you are not good enough that is the exact signal you are sending out to people. When you believe in yourself others will do too. This is difficult if people have always and are still putting you down and making you feel inadequate. But YOU are allowing them to make you feel this way. And only YOU can change this.





So how do you do it? Well it is easy, it is all about the Law of Attraction which is a metaphysical belief that "like attracts like" and that positive and negative thinking bring about positive and negative physical results, respectively. According to this belief the phrase "I need more money" allows the person to continue to "need more money". If you want to change this you need to focus your thoughts on having more money rather than needing it. Using positive affirmations such as "I WILL make more money" or "I WILL find a higher paid job" rather than "I need more money" is the way to do it.





If you want something bad enough you will have to work at it. Try some cosmic ordering. Cosmic ordering is the belief that you can make all of your wishes come true by basically ordering from the universe what you want and using this law of attraction. I am living proof it works as I have done it my whole life with sometimes outstanding results.





Whatever you want you can have. You HAVE to believe this. If you just want to be confident and feel good about yourself you can do it. If you want to get a new job and earn more money you can do it with some cosmic ordering. Let’s take this scenario that you want a new high paid job. Get yourself a diary or just a piece of paper and write down the perfect working day for you. The one in your imagination which is your dream job. Write about what you did, how you felt and so on. If this new job allowed you to get a new car write this down, explain how once dressed and breakfast eaten how you went out to your new car and just as you started to drive off you got a wiff of the new interior. As you are writing imagine the smell of the interior. Imagine the look of the new office you are working in, image the feeling you get when you get your first pay check. Imagination is everything.





So you have written your perfect day now all you need to do is believe it will happen. Remember you mustn’t tell people you want to have a new job soon and that you would like to have a new car. Tell people you WILL have a new job and you WILL own a new car. Positive affirmations are powerful and really work. Using these positive affirmations is sending the right signals out into the universe. You might think people will think you arrogant but who cares if it works! Keep imagining this new life of yours. If you are struggling to believe that a bit of imagination will change your life then think again. Try thinking about the guy who invented the light bulb, he believed in himself, he kept trying to make it work until one day it finally did, it might of took a few hundred attempt but he got there. You can be sure he didn’t think to himself that he was wasting his time and it would never work. He always had faith that he would achieve his dream. You can do the same and if you practice being positive all the time your dreams may come true sooner than you think.





There will be times in your life when you feel less confident but as long as you are aware of these feelings and when they arise you can pinpoint triggers. Once you figure out what causes you to lose faith in yourself you can learn to start to control it.





Another part of cosmic ordering it to be thankful of what we already have. You want to thank the universe every day for what life has given you already. Think about people around the world, there is always someone worse off than you. Also keep reading your diary and write more and more imaginative future days. It really works! There are many books on the law of attraction and cosmic ordering which I could recommend but all of what I have written has summed it up. At the end of the day YOUR thoughts create your thoughts create your outcome, so if you want a better life think it!





English Astrologer Patrick Arundell offers Horoscope & Astrology readings including Free Horoscopes love horoscopes, Tarot reading, Psychic readings and much more.